Matrimony, measured
You should be able to read
why two people fit.
Jodiva scores eleven things that actually decide a marriage — values, family expectations, timelines, money, faith, how you each argue — and shows you the working. Including the parts that would be a problem.
Ananya, 29, Bengaluru · Aarav, 32, Bengaluru
Both put family and honesty at the top of what matters.
Same timeline — both want to marry within a year.
She wants to live independently; he has said close to family.
Spoke length is the score. Spoke width is how much that person said the dimension matters — so the shape is theirs, not everyone’s.
What is different
Every other platform gives you a number. We give you the argument behind it.
01 / SCORING
Eleven dimensions, weighted by you
A single percentage is unfalsifiable. Jodiva scores each dimension separately and shows you what evidence produced it, so you can disagree with any part of it.
02 / HONESTY
It tells you what would be a problem
Every analysis ends with things worth discussing before you go further — different living plans, different views on children — with an actual question to ask.
03 / RANKING
It checks they would want you too
A 95% match who would never consider you is a rejection with extra steps. Recommendations are scored from both sides.
The eleven dimensions
What actually gets measured
You set how much each one counts. Set a dimension to zero and it stops affecting your matches entirely.
- 01
Values
What each of you holds most important
- 02
Personality
How your temperaments fit together
- 03
Lifestyle
Daily habits, food, energy, health
- 04
Family
Family setup and expectations after marriage
- 05
Career
Work ambition and what you expect of each other
- 06
Education
Academic background and outlook
- 07
Location
Where you are and where you would live
- 08
Faith
Belief and how much it shapes daily life
- 09
Intent
Timeline for marriage and plans for children
- 10
Interests
What you would enjoy doing together
- 11
Communication
How you each talk, and handle disagreement
Your matchmaker
Say what you want in your own words
Not a filter panel with thirty dropdowns. Tell your matchmaker what has been wrong with the profiles you are seeing, and it changes the weighting — then tells you exactly what it changed, so you can say no.
- It never widens or narrows your search without telling you.
- It warns you when your filters have made the pool too small.
- It learns from what you do, and shows you what it learned.
I’m getting a lot of very career-focused people. I’d like someone who puts family first, and Bangalore matters but isn’t essential.
Understood — I’ve raised the weight on family expectations, reduced career, and set Bengaluru as a preference rather than a requirement. Have a look and tell me if they feel closer.
Changed
Trust and safety
The scams on matrimony sites are well known. We check for them on every message.
Every message is scanned before it is delivered
Requests for money, investment pitches, advance-fee patterns and pressure to move to another app are detected on the way out and raised to a human moderator.
Nothing is decided by a machine alone
The safety system triages. It does not ban. A person reviews every consequential action, and every decision is written to an audit log.
Photos are yours to release
Choose whether photos are visible to everyone, only after you accept interest, or only to matches. The default is not "everyone".
Verification that means something
Phone, photo and ID checks each carry their own badge, and you can restrict discovery to verified members only.
Family circle
Bring your family in without handing over the account
Invite a parent or sibling and choose exactly what they can see. They can shortlist, suggest and leave private notes. They cannot message anyone, and you can revoke access in one tap.
Questions
Is the free version actually usable?+
Yes. You get the full compatibility analysis, unfiltered explanations, discovery across every surface, and a genuine allowance with the matchmaker. Paid tiers raise limits and add tools like incognito browsing and who-viewed-me. They do not unlock the reasoning — that would defeat the point of the product.
Do I need photos to start?+
No. You can build a complete profile and browse without uploading anything. Profiles with photos do get considerably more responses, and we will tell you so, but it is your decision and you control who sees them.
What does the AI actually do?+
It translates what you say into search changes and explains them; it drafts profile copy for you to edit and approve; it explains compatibility results in plain language; it suggests first messages anchored to something real in the other profile; and it scans for scam patterns. It never messages anyone as you, and it never publishes anything you have not approved.
What does it refuse to do?+
It will not infer or comment on caste hierarchy, skin tone, dowry, virginity, fertility or disability, and it will not rank people on appearance. If asked directly, it says so and moves on.
Can my parents use it with me?+
If you invite them. You choose exactly which permissions they get and can revoke them instantly. They can never message anyone or change your settings.
Are these profiles real?+
In this environment, no — every profile is synthetic, generated for development, and flagged as demo data. Nothing here represents a real person.
Start with what matters to you
Profile in about ten minutes. No photo needed to begin.